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Oral sex is still the most common type of unprotected sex. You should know about oral sex and HIV/STD infection. On this page we define oral sex as sucking cock (or getting sucked -- aka "head" or "fellatio") and rimming (mouth to anus contact aka "analingus").

Oral sex and sexually transmitted diseases

There are different levels of risk, depending upon the STD and the type of oral sex.
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STDs that cause sores and blisters (like syphilis and herpes) are easy to get from all types of oral sex - getting or giving.

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Gonorrhea and chlamydia transmission is possible from sucking and getting sucked. 

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Hepatitis A, intestinal parasites, and herpes can be easily passed through rimming without a barrier. 

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Having an STD can increase your chances of getting or transmitting HIV. 

Oral Sex and HIV

There have been a number of studies that have examined the risk of getting HIV from oral sex. However, because many of these studies have included people who also engaged in anal sex, it is difficult to determine if HIV infection was due to anal or oral sex. As of February, 2005 there have been two studies which have measured the risk of getting HIV from oral sex alone. In both studies, there were no HIV infections among participants. Until more studies are conducted, the actual risk from oral sex alone is not known. Meanwhile, available evidence suggests that: 
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HIV is not easy to get or transmit from any kind of oral sex. 

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It is much, much easier to get HIV from anal sex without a condom than from oral sex without a condom. 

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Although the risk is very, very low, there have been some well-documented reports of people getting HIV from sucking, as well as a few from getting sucked, and one from rimming. 

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Since most reports are about HIV being acquired from men who suck, it is assumed that it may be much easier to get HIV from sucking with ejaculation than from getting sucked. 

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A number of things could increase your chances of getting or transmitting HIV: 

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Bleeding gums, gum disease, or sores in the mouth. 

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The amount of virus in the semen. 

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Having an STD.

See below for more information about HIV and STDs.


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Only you can decide what you will or won’t do. Consider the following questions when making that decision.

“How easy is it to get HIV and other STDs from Oral Sex?” 

bulletNot all STDs are easily passed through oral sex. Educate yourself on which diseases are more common and which are easier to spread through oral sex (see chart below). 
bulletHIV is not easily passed through oral sex. However, it is possible that bleeding gums, sores in the mouth, cum in the mouth or STDs could increase your chances of HIV infection. Be informed about what may increase the risk of infection.

“What are my chances of having sex with someone infected with HIV or another STD?” 

bulletTo get HIV or an STD from oral sex, your partner must be infected with that disease. 
bulletKnow what diseases you are likely to be exposed to and how they are passed. 
bulletFor example, about one-third of gay men in San Francisco are infected with HIV. Therefore, your chances of having sex with an HIV positive partner are high. On the other hand, although the number of gonorrhea cases among gay men has increased dramatically over the past few years, the chances of having sex with a partner with gonorrhea is still much lower than with HIV. 

“What can happen to me if I get the disease?”

bulletEven though the chance of getting HIV from oral sex is low, the consequences of HIV are life changing. You may decide that it isn’t worth taking the chance and use protection. Or you may not feel that protection is necessary because the chance of transmission is low. 
bulletSome STDs have more serious consequences than others. Know what these are to determine the level of risk that is acceptable to you and your partners.

The decisions are yours. Once you’ve decided, talk to your partner.

“How can I reduce my risk?”

Any of these methods may reduce your risk for STDs and HIV. Some are more effective than others. 

For Sucking and Getting Sucked

For maximum protection, use non-lubricated latex condoms If you don’t like the taste, try flavored condoms. 

IF YOU DON’T WANT TO USE CONDOMS: 

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Don’t take cum in your mouth or shoot in someone else’s mouth.

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Avoid sucking or rimming if you have bleeding gums, sores, or have just gone to the dentist. These could make it easier for HIV and STDs to enter the body. Wait until they heal. 

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Keep your gums healthy. Do not brush or floss your teeth right before or after having sex. Wait awhile. 

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Look closely for sores or blisters on the genitals, mouth or lips. If sores or blisters are visible, avoid oral sex. Remember: they are not always easy to see. 

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Avoid deep throating. This may irritate the lining of the throat, making it easier for HIV and STDs to enter the body. 

For Rimming

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Use a barrier like plastic wrap to prevent fecal matter (shit) from getting into your mouth. This can protect you from intestinal parasites and hepatitis A. 

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Using a barrier may also protect you from herpes.

Determining The Risk: Oral Sex & HIV/STDs

STD

"How easy is it to transmit
through oral sex?"

"What can happen to someone with this STD?"

"Can having this disease increase my chances of HIV infection?"


"What should I know if my partner or I am HIV-positive"

"What are my chances of having sex with someone with this STD?"

HIV/AIDS

Difficult 

• Although there have been a few documented cases of people getting HIV from sucking and getting sucked, available research suggests that the risk of HIV from any kind of oral sex is very low.

• HIV is a life changing disease and there is no cure.

• While there have been case reports of infection with another strain of HIV (superinfection), it appears to be rare.

• Animal models suggest that superinfection may be restricted to a short time period after initial infection.

• It is not known if superinfection is dangerous or what the long-term health consequences may be.

• It is estimated that about 30% of gay men in San Francisco are HIV +.

• Talk to your partner about HIV status before having sex.

As of May 2005:

• Only one published study has measured the risk of getting HIV from sucking. No HIV infections were found among 239 gay and bisexual men recruited from HIV testing sites who reported only having oral sex in the previous 6 months. In a recent update of this study, researchers reported that among 432 men in the study, there were still no HIV infections.

• A Spanish study conducted between 1990-2000, looked at 135 sexually active HIV negative male and females who only engaged in oral sex with their HIV positive partners. There were over 19,000 acts of unprotected orogenital sex (fellatio or cunnilingus) and no HIV infections.

• A study of 102 recently infected gay and bisexual men, found 8 cases of HIV infection they attributed to oral sex. However, only two of these individuals reported no anal sex.

Although HIV is in pre-cum and semen, the chance of transmission is much much lower than through unprotected anal intercourse because:

• Saliva contains enzymes that appear to neutralize the virus.

• The types of cells that HIV infects are much more common in the lining of the rectum than in the mouth.

• The lining of the mouth is tougher and more resistant than the lining of the rectum.

The following may increase your risk of HIV infection and/or transmission:

• Sores, cuts, and gum disease may make it easier for HIV to enter the body.

• White blood cells at the site of an STD infection may provide an easy entry point for HIV.

Herpes
(Oral herpes or cold sores are usually caused by the HSV type 1 (HSV-1) and genital herpes by HSV type II (HSV-II). However, HSV-1 can cause genital herpes.)

Easy

• Sores and blisters (usually on the lips, genitals, or anus) are extremely infectious.

• Easily passed by sucking/getting sucked, rimming, and licking/being licked.

• In many cases the herpes virus can be passed when no symptoms are present.

• Blisters/sores can be extremely painful.

• Individuals with herpes usually have periodic outbreaks throughout their lives.

• Treatment can reduce the severity and the duration of herpes outbreaks but is not a cure.

Yes

• Research suggests that having HSV-II can more than double your risk for HIV infection.

• The risk of HIV infection is greater for those with new HSV-II infections compared to those with long-standing HSV-II.

• Sores or lesions provide easy entry and exit for HIV. 

• Outbreaks occur more often, are more severe, and may take longer to heal. 

• Outbreaks increase the frequency and amount of HIV you shed and may make it easier to transmit HIV. 

• Studies among heterosexuals in Africa suggest that the risk of getting HSV-II from sex is about four times greater for HIV positive than HIV negative individuals.

High

• Nearly 7 out of every 10 Americans have oral herpes (HSV-I) often acquired non-sexually during childhood.

• It is estimated that 30-50% of HIV negative MSM and up to 80% of HIV+ MSM have HSV-II.

Syphilis

Very Easy if sores or mucus patches are present

• Easily passed through all types of oral sex from contact with open sores (commonly called chancres) on the penis, anus, or mouth.

• Also passed through contact with mucus patches in the mouth.

• Sexually active gay men should get tested for syphilis at least every three months.

• Sores & rashes of syphilis infection are painless and usually go away. 

• Can be cured with antibiotics. 

• Left untreated syphilis can eventually cause brain damage, heart disease, blindness and death.

Yes

• Open syphilis sores or chancres provide an  easy entry and exit for HIV.

• White blood cells at the site of infection may increase the chances of HIV infection.

• Progression from primary to secondary to tertiary syphilis may be accelerated in individuals with HIV.

• Treatment may be different for HIV positive individuals.

• Syphilis can increase your viral load, as well as decrease your CD-4 or T-cell count.

• It is recommended that syphilis testing be included as part of your routine HIV blood work.

Medium But Increasing

• Since 1998, syphilis cases in San Francisco have increased over 400% -- from 41 in 1998 to 522 in 2003.

• In 2004, over 95% were among gay and bisexual males-- of whom, 60% were HIV positive.

Gonorrhea

Moderately Easy

• When passed through oral sex, gonorrhea is usually passed from the penis into the throat while sucking cock.

• It can also be passed from an infected throat to a penis while getting sucked. 

• Gonorrhea can cause burning with urination and/or discharge from the penis.

• Can cause a sore throat.

• Some people have no symptoms at all.

• Can be cured with antibiotics.

Yes 

• Increased white blood cells and inflammation at the site of infection may make it easier for HIV to enter the body.

• It does not appear that HIV infection affects symptoms or treatment of gonorrhea. 

• Gonorrhea appears to increase the amount of HIV in semen and may make it easier to transmit HIV.

Medium/Low

• In 2003, over a third of all gonorrhea cases among MSM seen at SF City Clinic were pharyngeal (in the throat).

           

STD

"How easy is it to transmit
through oral sex?"

"What can happen to someone with this STD?"

"Can having this disease increase my chances of HIV infection?"


"What should I know if my partner or I am HIV-positive"

"What are my chances of having sex with someone with this STD?"

NGU
(Non-gonoccal urethritis)

Probably Easy 
• No studies have been done measuring the risk of oral transmission. However, doctors at SF City Clinic frequently treat cases of orally transmitted NGU. 

• NGU can be passed from both sucking and getting sucked.

• NGU can cause burning when urinating and/or discharge from the penis.

• NGU of the throat can cause a sore throat.

• Can be cured with antibiotics.

Likely

• Increased white blood cells and inflammation at the site of infection may make it easier for HIV to enter the body.

• It does not appear that HIV infection affects symptoms or treatment of NGU.

• NGU may increase viral load in semen making it easier to transmit HIV.

Low

• Although low, like most STDs among gay men in San Francisco, the numbers have been increasing since 1998.

Chlamydia

Unknown But Possible

• No reliable studies have been done that measure the risk of oral transmission.

• Chlamydia can be found in the throat.

• It is becoming more common among gay men.

• Chlamydia can cause burning with urination and/or discharge from the penis.

• Can be cured with antibiotics.

Yes

• Increased white blood cells and inflammation at the site of infection may make it easier for HIV to enter the body.

• It does not appear that HIV infection affects symptoms or treatment of chlamydia.

• Chlamydia appears to increase the amount of HIV in semen making it easier to transmit HIV.

Low/Medium But Increasing 

• About 4% of the men who have sex with men seen at SF City Clinic are infected.

Genital Warts
(Human Papilloma Virus)

Unknown 

• It is not known how easy it is to transmit the genital wart virus through oral sex. 

• Can be passed by all types of oral sex. 

• Warts usually appear on the penis or in the anus but may also occur in or around the mouth or lips.

• Spread through skin-to-skin contact or contact with warts. 

• Different treatments are available but the virus stays in the body. 

• While most strains of HPV only cause warts, some strains cause anal cancer. 

• Although not an issue for oral sex, if you have anal sex talk to your doctor about regular anal pap smears.

Unknown for Oral Sex 

• Studies have shown an increased rate of HIV infection for people with anal or genital warts who have unprotected anal sex. 

• Warts may provide an easy entry point for HIV to enter the body.

• Genital warts may be more common and harder to treat. 

• Studies have found that HPV is more common among HIV positive individuals than HIV negative individuals. 

• With decreased T-cells, shedding of HPV appears to increase thus making it more infectious. 

• Anal cancer is 7 times more common among HIV+ than HIV negative MSM. Get checked regularly if you have had anal warts.

High 

• Genital warts are one of the most common STDs. 

• Check for wart-like growths on the penis, anus, or lips of a sex partner. NOTE: Genital warts are sometimes too small to be seen.

Intestinal Parasites
(Cryptosporidium, Shigella, Giardia, etc.)

Easy 

• Intestinal parasites are easily passed through rimming. 

• Sucking and getting sucked are low risk unless you swallow fecal matter (shit) when sucking.

• Symptoms include Unknown diarrhea, stomach cramps, bloating, increased gas, and nausea. 

• Most intestinal diseases can be cured with medication.

Unknown • If you have a weakened immune system, symptoms may be more severe and parasites may be more difficult to cure. Low 

• In 2004, rates for these diseases were low. 

• Most cases in San Francisco occur among men who have sex with men.

Hepatitis A

Very Easy 

• Hepatitis A is very easily passed through rimming. 

• Sucking is low risk unless you swallow fecal matter (shit) when sucking. 

• Get vaccinated.

• Hepatitis A can cause weakness, dark urine, jaundice (yellowing of skin and eyes), and enlarged liver.

• Symptoms of Hepatitis A usually go away after several weeks.

Unknown • It does not appear that HIV infection affects transmission or symptoms of Hepatitis A. 

• Some HIV drugs have toxic side effects that are harmful to the liver. Any disease like hepatitis that affects the liver may increase risk of liver damage.

Moderately Low 

• However, rates of Hepatitis A have been increasing in San Francisco and most cases in San Francisco occur among men who have sex with men.

Hepatitis B

Probably Difficult 

• No studies have measured the risk of transmission from oral sex. 

• Transmitted primarily through unprotected anal sex. 

• Get vaccinated.

• Hepatitis B can cause weakness, dark urine, jaundice (yellowing of skin and eyes), and enlarged liver. 

• 10% of adults infected with Hepatitis B become carriers of the virus. Long-term effects can include scarring and cancer of the liver.

Unknown • It does not appear that HIV infection affects transmission or symptoms of Hepatitis B. 

• Symptoms can be different for HIV positive individuals. 

• Some HIV drugs have toxic side effects that are harmful to the liver. Any disease like hepatitis that affects the liver may increase risk of liver damage.

Probably Low 

• The number of cases of Hepatitis B among gay men has decreased significantly since 1985 due to the adoption of safer sex practices for anal sex and vaccination.

Information & Services

STD Testing, Treatment and Counseling 

San Francisco City Clinic: (415) 487-5500 356 7th Street (between Folsom and Harrison) San Francisco, CA 94103 www.sfcityclinic.org  

HIV Prevention and Health Service Information 

For a complete list of HIV prevention, care, and testing services in San Francisco visit the SFDPH, HIV Prevention Section web site at: www.SFHIV.org. Click on the Our Services button on the top of the page to find services 

Other Resources 

Syphilis testing made easy: Sign up on-line, drop by a nearby lab for the test, and get your results on line. www.STDtest.org

Let a sex partner know by e-mail that you have an STD and they need get checked out www.INSPOT.org  

Need help telling a partner they may have been exposed to HIV? Partner Disclosure Assistance Program:  866-606-7327 www.sfhiv.org/textPage/54.html  

San Francisco AIDS Hotline: 415-863-AIDS 

Sexual Health Services for Gay Men 

Magnet: 4122 18th Street (at Castro): 415-581-1600 San Francisco, CA www.Magnetsf.org 

*It is important to note: the number of new cases of these STDs can easily increase within just a few weeks.

The preceding was developed by Developed by: The San Francisco Department of Public Health, STD Prevention & Control and the HIV Prevention Section with special thanks to Mike Pendo, Frank Strona, Lisa Higdon, and staff of City Clinic and the STOP AIDS Project. Graphic Design by Mario Mondelli. For information on obtaining copies of this brochure, contact the SFDPH, HIV Prevention Section or visit us at www.SFHIV.org Used by permission. Updated in May 2005

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